I am attempting to begin a ‘series’ on our blog about OBEDIENCE in all of it’s forms…we’ll see how this goes!
In the beginning of this journey, we had very specific ideas of what simplification looked like (see ‘beginning’ post link)
Now, a few years later, this striving for simplicity has become a craving…an insistance in my life
Every day I am looking around the house thinking:
What can we get rid of?
What can we sell?
Who should we give this away to instead of selling it?
Who can we bless with this money?
How can we be more responsible with what we have been given?
How can I avoid getting too much stuff?
Which room/cupboard/storage box can I sort through today?
Now, before you think ‘Wow, they are selfless. Look how much they think of others,’
stop yourself…because we are selfish, prideful, greedy sinners.
It is only by God’s goodness and grace that He has intervened in our lives this way and is changing our hearts to resemble His more
In the beginning I felt attached to ‘things’ and ‘stuff’
Over the years of simplifying our life I have learned what it means to store up treasures in heaven, not on earth…
This stuff isn’t coming with me!
I have gained so much FREEDOM from this life change!
– I don’t need paintings and art on my walls – give me pictures of my handsome husband and adorable children
– Our kids do not need gifts for birthdays, Christmas, or ever, really – let’s save our money to get them what they need, when they need it…not getting the habit of getting them what they want when our culture says they deserve presents
– Let’s celebrate our marriage by spending time together alone, reconnecting and romancing each other – we don’t need new gadgets, jewelry, or expensive surprises
– We don’t need to shower family with gifts for every holiday, accomplishment, or get together – let’s spend quality time together, having real, vulnerable conversations about Jesus: those will last forever…
– Let’s be careful with our ‘yes’s’ to protect our time together as a young family – let’s minister where we are called, and say no to spend time together playing, teaching, and learning from each other
– I don’t want to feel so possessive over things or people that are not even mine – God gave me my husband, children, and family for a short time…but they are not mine forever, they are His! I am called to care and love for them as He would have me for now…protecting, leading, and guiding them towards Him for an eternity in paradise
How have you learned to simplify your stuff, relationships, and life?!
I challenge you, too, to get down deep inside and consider how else you can simplify your life – enjoy the freedom it brings you!!!